Wanting to call her but posting instead A002702: Hey guys,
I need ya'll help. I haven't heard from my ex since Monday when she called me and I am wanting to call her. I need ya'll to give me reasons why I shouldnt pick up this phone and call. Im having withdrawls. Please help.
CD
Re:Wanting to call her but posting instead brokenman: One good reason is that you ARE having withdrawls. If you call then you will have withdrawls again later.
Another is that you aren't going to hear what you want to hear. And if you do, its probably just because she knows it's what you want to hear.
Yet another is that you don't need to. You had enough strength to post here before actually calling. So you really know that you shouldn't.
And the last one from me... give me three good reasons why you should call her. If you think of two really good ones then change that to four good reasons. :)
Re:Wanting to call her but posting instead sirhc96: Well I for one wouldnt call her because I know that almost everytime I talk to my ex I usually end up getting depressed because the call never goes the way I hope for. Thats one reason why I havent paid my phone bill. Waiting for it to get disconnected so I dont have the oppurtunity to call her when I am alone dwelling on things.
Secondly, what do expect to get of talking to her? Just ask yourself will the call go good and you will feel better afterwards? Like most posts I have read on here, the call never goes right and you will feel worse afterwards.
Hope this helps some.
Chris
Re:Wanting to call her but posting instead ChristyM: [quote"> I need ya'll to give me reasons why I shouldnt pick up this phone and call[/quote">
Because you'll feel even worse the minute you hang up the phone and you'll wish you hadn't called -- trust me.
Christy
Re:Wanting to call her but posting instead LostTeacher: I will repeat a few and name maybe one or two more.
you WILL feel worse after talking. i know that i am going through the same thing, dying to talk to him, and then feeling worse after doing so. it's not going to make it better, because they are not going to say what we want to hear.
and you don't want to take steps backwards. if you feel like this now, think about how much worse you will feel once you get off the phone. then it's going to take twice as long to even feel like you do now.
do the things you are doing, talking on here, take a walk, phone a friend, anything to get your mind off things.
I like the idea of giving three good reasons to phone. and i mean honest good reasons, not just i want to hear the voice, because hearing the voice is not going to be a good reason in the end.
