what are we gaining here? annastarlet: I can't deal with my ex...with losing him. We broke up for seemingly no reason. I got angry with him about something...he broke it off sensing the fight coming. Things were getting too serious for him I guess and he got scared.
He's talked to a couple of my friends online and has admitted he's miserable. I talked to him on the phone two days ago and he acted like he was having a really rough time without me and got angry anytime I mentioned that we were no longer together.
I had a date...he knew I didn't go on it since he asked my friend about it. He said he didn't want to know about me and other guys as well and said I was so pretty. He asked me on the phone about my date...knowing full well I didn't go and then asked why I didn't go. I said I wasn't over him and he sounded pretty proud of himself.
If he is so miserable...and I'm so miserable...then what has he gained here? What I have gained here? Nothing.
>:( ???
Re:what are we gaining here? Dino: Maybe you will both gain an appreciation of what you had with each other. Perhaps it will help you get back together.
Or eventually you might gain an feeling of joyful independence knowing you don't need each other. Both are possible.
Hope it works out
Re:what are we gaining here? annastarlet: I hate this. Everyone says he's miserable. Then what the hell is going on?!!! I just want him to admit he made a mistake.
I wrote him a long e-mail...not begging for him back or anything...just a long e-mail. I hope it makes him think a lot. I wrote it to him a couple of days ago and have not received a response. Its not like him to just ignore it...so I think he's thinking of something to say....whether it be good or bad.
