SEX tupsie: :-[ :-\
Why would they (the leaver) want to have sex with you. I keep wondering . If they dont want to be with you why would they still want this. Is it a guy thing meaning they will take iot no matter were they can. I dont want to beleive all men are like that . Does it mean they are just confused about what they want or do old habits die hard?Anyone have a clue?
Re:SEX BigRunner493: it is probably because he knows "it" is available when he wants "it".
if that is the only reason he is in the relationship, then i would cut him off. i guess for some guys, they can just have sex with no feelings.
if that is the only reason he comes around, then you need and deserve more than that. don't get me wrong, sex was a big issue with me and my ex. she only wanted sex when we were trying to have kids, whereas i saw it as a healthy activity that should occur on a weekly basis. i think sex plays a major part in a marriage or a relationship and probably plays a major part in most break-ups.
i certainly wouldn't have "booty-calls", if that is what you feel he is doing, with my stbx if there weren't deeper feelings invovled.
tc,
br
Re:SEX brokenman: I also think that on some level (perhaps right at the surface) he thinks that if you are having "it" with him then you will not be out having "it" with anyone else. And as hypocrytical as it obviously is, they can't take what they dish out. I won't discount the fact that there is also comfort and history between you two. Even if he has thrown all of that in the trash. :-\
Re:SEX paul76: I agree with brokenman, the guy is just having a hard time letting go. For some reason men feel that if they are still having sex with a women, then that gives him some sort of comfort in a very trying time for all parties involved.
Re:SEX heartbroken4: I agree!
