Re: questions for both men and women justme15: I agree that it is hard to handle at times. I learned one thing from therpy never hold it in. At least now I can talk about things again. I would talk the other half but doesn't want to hear it. Take that back he just won't talk....lol
Every little bit helps thanks
questions for both men and women justme15: Why are you so afraid of talking about how you feel at times? Can you sit and pour it all out to the one you love without holding back? Why is it that if we can the other thinks they can't?
In my crazy world with my spouse. He wants me to talk but he can't seem to do the same. All he can say is this is how it is. I don't understand it.........someone here know why the other partner asks this way
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Re: questions for both men and women slowlearner: I have lots that I would like to talk about to my ex - but when i try, he either goes offline without another word, or he changes the subject - it seems everything about 'us' is now taboo.
I'm so glad I have OJAR to get some of it out of my system.
Re: questions for both men and women justme15: I know the feeling. Mine does the same thing to me all the time. If I try to talkto him about things he just gets mad at me. The weird thing is He says he wants to be freinds but can't talk to me about anything. Crazy a** man if you ask me.........lol
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Re: questions for both men and women soTiredOfHurting: Pooh - My STBXW is the same way. She wants me to open up and talk to her, but when it comes to her, the walls are up and all I get is I don't know, I'm lost, yadda-yadda-yadda. Well since she has 'moved on' I won't do that anymore. You made your choice, live with it. You lose me.
