don't belong? joeykttn: ok... maybe I just feel guilty or sumthin', but I've been reading alot of the posts here.... most of you guys are the hurt, broken side of the relationship, the ones who got left behind. I'm not.. I'm the leaver, the hurter, the one who's breaking the home, the vows....
*sigh* I'm not sure any of you can relate.. reading your stories of heartache is making me feel like a bi&*h for putting him through this... Someone asked in another post how people just stop loving...? I don't know, I just know it happens. It's like a light switch that's been turned off somehow, and I like the dark.. I think
So, I guess I'm sorry.. I'm not so sure I belong here
Re:don't belong? Shanna: Some "leavers" who caused the pain stick around to learn more about what they did and try to learn from their mistakes. Others can't face what they did. The guilt it too much so they leave.
We offer support to cheaters/leavers/leavees/anyone who seeks support here. So if you are comfortable here you are welcome.
Re:don't belong? Jennicole: dont say that you dont belong here. you have totally different circustances, that are understandable. there are lots of us up here, that have different things going on. its not just people who have been left. heck, my realationship is working out, so by the books i guess i dont belong here either. but im staying!!! you meet people up here, who will help you out a lot, lend and ear and just be there for you. i wont give it up, and i dont think you should either!!!!
Re:don't belong? Chase: Hey Joeykttn,
Sure you belong here! It's about breakup/divorce, not just being left, or cheated on. Sure there are a lot of the latter, but that's not to the exclusion of other things. You can offer people your own unique insight on issues that they are struggling to understand, and others here can do the same for you!
Welcome
Chase
Re:don't belong? Shanna: Did we do something that made you feel unwelcome??? If you really look at my story I am the LEaver....I chose to leave when he told me he would be friends with OW even if it meant losing me. I chose to leave bc I shouldn't have to deal with a woman my husband cheated on me with being his friend. Does that make me bad or wrong or that I don't belong here....nope....just means I did what was best for myself and my children.
I hope you stick around.
