I'm such an @sss!!! Gildabron: I'm such an @ss !! Why do I still want him why do I still want to have sex with him . Am I stupid ir something. He left he didnt even try to work things out . What is wrong with me that I want someone who can turn to an ow when things get rough11 What a loser Iam!!!!
Re:I'm such an @sss!!! Dino: Nothing is wrong with you. You can't just turn off the feelings you have for someone. Even when they do something as horrible as that. If you stay away from him, your feelings will slowly fade. Its only natural for you to feel this way. Sucky, but natural.
Re:I'm such an @sss!!! soTiredOfHurting: You are still attached to him, that is what happens as relationships deepen. Our attachment to the other person grows. When they leave you are now left with a void that used to be filled by other things but has switched to this person. That is where the pain comes from. With each day though you can learn to lessen the attachment on that person and let other areas of your life fill what you seek. In time there will not be an attachment left and you will have let go. Good luck and we are here for you.
Re:I'm such an @sss!!! AmyMarie1972: I agree with BD & STOH when they say that you feelings can't just be switched off. This doesn't make you anything more than a human being and a caring one at that.
Dont feel down on yourself for having feelings, for loving someone and for trusting someone, you gave the best gift that anybody could ever give to anyone. Of course you don't want to take it back even if it is offered it was a once a lifetime deal. But as time passes you will realise that this isn't the case. Fate sometimes knocks us of our feet and down to the ground and what we have to do is get right back up and kick fate in the a$$.
Accept the feelings that you are having so that you can live with them and accept that this is going to take some time but there is light at the end of the tunnel no matter how long it appears to be.
All the best.
