im a fraud...... but hold your fire :) reck: I stumbled on ths forum by chance and it was a shocker.....I thought in my ignorance that what i had experienced in the last 4 months was competely undiscovered territory...... secret internet relationships, lying and deceving, expansion of small issues to demonise, no comuncation, no apparent will to save the relationship......all from a person you thought incapable of lying, that you had been with for 27 years. Hell i thought! ....if something that caused this much pain was common it would be outlawed :) I could go on but as you would have guessed im over 35, and im bit down on ANY type of deception these days, so could anyone direct me to a similar forum for my age group :)
Re:im a fraud...... but hold your fire :) slowlearner: Hey Reck, stay right where you are. You are very welcome on OJAR no matter how old you are.
This is an INCLUSIVE forum, not an EXCLUSIVE one ;)
Hell, they even let Australians post on here!
psst, between you and me, I'm a tad over 35 myself.
Re:im a fraud...... but hold your fire :) riversandlakes: Yeah, this place gives you a sense of perspective. Amazing...
You are not alone, and there is somewhat a pattern on how Planet X citizens behave. Sit around long enough and you might just see it!
Re:im a fraud...... but hold your fire :) AmyMarie1972: Hey Reck,
Stay on this site. You are experiencing the same thoughts and feelings as the rest of us. Age is not important.
Re:im a fraud...... but hold your fire :) Ladybug: Hey Reck,
I'm over 35 too. A good bit over. I looked for a simalar site for our age group and couldn't find anything a liked and they've been very nice to this old lady here :)
There is talk of a sister site or a section on this site for us old farts. See the "What's new on the OJAR site" link.
