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Do Men CRY ?????
Moving to PA from NY.
Today is the anniversary of the angriest I've ever been in my life (long)
It's OVER!
How stupid can he be?
Stupid vent
Are we too selfish and thats why we break up?
Re: let em down gently?
This damn ring
Like We Never Loved At All
The point beyond repair
Re: Working Mother's Prayer
Re: Loss
Confession
Re: Now, excuse me...
Potentially and Realistically
Need an Opinion
Sometimes Love Just Ain't Enough
just for once
Need some advise ASAP! I am setting up to talk him.
BigRunner temporarily out of order :)
Chicken Soup for the Beer Drinker's Soul
There Are Only Two Things In Life To Worry About...
I'm a YaBB God???
Re: Put stbxh on HotorNot.
Get out of my head!!
Just down.
Why do I feel so bad???
Career goals
Bad Idea
Harder, Faster...
What songs pick you up?
Women and Their "Sixth Sense"
Nostalgia
details of my divorce
Re: I have a boyfriend!
Chicago White Sox
Sushi
Is this common?
She's an A-HOLE!
My divorce
What do I do?
What did you believe as a kid that is funny to you now?
The feeling of The uncertain-Fear
Don't mess with me!
pictures
Secret
The Totally Random...
When do you begin to worry?
Apathy
Fat and Ugly Day.
Rage
Probably Wouldn't Be This Way
Final Letter/ Rant
What I never told you (Part I)
Dyslexic Ojarians Untie!
HEARTBROKEN
need advice
He Just Dosen't Care, Does He?
im so conflicted...
New idea for a board...
Does it last?
Difficult situation
What do you want that's kinda stupid?
My 5th Anniversary today
I hate me so much..........
TGIF
Re: Counselling
Re: I'm taking the LSAT tomorrow!
Re: Friday - Smiley Style
This is new for me, and it kind of sucks
Ugh! Am VERY sad today....
? for the leavers.....
I just want to go home....
Re: I'm a newbie...and heartbroken
Someone please pop me.....I'M FULL!!
Yankees vs Red Sox
THE ULTIMATUM
Venting about family
i hate nights like this....
it was yesterday, but.......
Screw it... I'm gettin drunk!
He really messed up my head!
Re: friends disappearing
No matter how hard I work
My Mother...
No Will Power
Re: for the humor inclined
OUT OF ORDER!
Lines from the movie Annie Hall
crushed like tokyo after godzilla
Question for those in relationships
Numbah 1 Priority...
sleep? who needs it? apparently not me!?
Need Advice
Who the hell steals a hose?????
Re: I NEED SEX!!
Woohoo!!!!!!!!!
Missing him and feel very sad
Re: Getting To Know Your Fellow Ojarians VIII
Rug taken out from underneath me
Favorite Food?
My daughter is so sweet.
love is everything
Feeling seriously lonely all day today-Still
Alone
memories
Re: COMMA SPLICES -- AGHHH!!!
Weird Situation Help
I am Out of Here
Here's mine
Re: Goodbye
Hmmm... He's not making it easy!
it rained last night,......
Bawitdaba
Cocky
Sooner Or Later
no contact makes me feel better!
Re: Once Bitten, Twice Shy
looking for something?
Re: She Only (For the OJAR girls)
How much would you tell?
Re: What I hate...
Re: I feel like dirt, he loves someone else.
Weekends suck!
Trying to forgive you, hope you can forgive me
Can't win
Written on February 2nd, 2005
Re: Movies that have seriously disturbed you?
They ask why. Here's why!
Re: What would it take for you to get married again?
Whats is LOVE "Really?"
Re: Remember me?
Would your ex treat a stranger on the street better?
Re: WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!
Re: Smiles help :)
Re: Yanks again!!!
Happy Late Birthday Sadaboutdad!!!
Re: I'm "dating", and don't want Ex back, do I file 1st?
Re: Can you come out of denial and then go back???
memories and OW
Re: Reminicing
Day One of N/C
GRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!
Karma...FINALLY
So Fing Mad!!!
My hands are tied
Re: ARGH
What To Do When Kid(s) Are Involved & Your Heart Is Broken & Confused!?!?
Post a fun story
My husband has now acquired the title of King of the Dumb Asses!!
he has the nerve to ask me what my plans are for custody??
How do you know?
suprise suprise
I went out on my first "date" lol
Re: ...and the evening continued....
Re: picture of the prego patrol.....lol
feelings *do* go away
Get Your Child support even deadbeats must pay
Where are my friends?
Re: Size does matter :)
This is truely hell
Re: Getting To Know Your Fellow Ojarians IX
anyone out there?
I want him to pay for what he did to me!!!
2 months ago I was OK
Re: favorite party games
same old story
TX Geographical Restriction
Cowboy talk :)
Been awhile
Rascal Flatts - The Day Before You (Blue and LgH's song)
She Thinks She Needs Me - Andy Griggs
Would you change?
I dunno about wonderful but it was funny!
Re: Why do men have nipples?
Is It Over?
Now will you admit you're an alcoholic?!
WHAT ELSE???
if you've ever doubted....
Re: Recommend a movie that isn't well known
I'm not Alone
Re: And for those who were dying to know
Would you...
Re: Signs That Someone Likes You
vent this !!
West coast Canadians??
Random questions
Mistake
I GOT MY WEDDING DRESS!
Re: Do you ever?
how did i know???
Re: my story is completely generic
Re: Signs that someone loves you....
How do I get in the chat rooms ????
Re: I fell in LOVE!!!
I got a raise!!!!
Anyone out there on this lazy sunday night?
Updated story: this is what he wants....
Mixed Messages SO sick of it
love this quote
A big thanks
Tell me I was dreaming
OK, the deal is on
oh, what a b*tch!
Re: happy birthday to me...(warning: pity party inside)
Can't sleep
Not sure what to do
I'm starting to get annoyed
Re: This noise woke me up...
separation anxiety problems being alone
Re: Is this even right??
Re: It's the Final Countdown!
MEAP
Re: My life begins tomorrow
I think I met my match ...
New Words for 2005
Re: Question from a confused man
Re: She sent me THIS e-mail:
Is it possible to do this at all?
Re: Threesomes
Re: Friends asking me for marital advice
Re: The point beyond repair... continued
Two things happened today!
Re: Women...
Re: The door closes today
Re: ROAR!
Re: PLEASE I NEED SOME HELP AND SUPPORT
Re: People Suck
Re: Where are my happy pills?
Re: Applesauce-honey ice cream!
Life Insurance Policy questions
Re: How do you fix the unfixable?
Dog lovers check this out...
Re: Child Support and $$ under the table
Re: I will survive
Trying to reconcile after affair
Re: Should I Quit Her???
Re: So torn- to get back together or not
MIL wants to see new baby
Re: When do I???
stupid vent
Re: OK, the blues...
Pinched Nerve
Have a someone special now and need your advise and thoughts
Breaking down
at least I think it's interesting....
Re: something was dying to get into my pants...
Waaaaahhhhh!!!!!
Strong Enough/Cher/this song always gives me strength on a bad day
Re: first relationship after the break up
So I completely lost it, and he called the police UPDATE!
Wanna apologize
How do i know if i am ready?
Anyone chilling late night?
losing my mind
The Roller Coaster
In The End by Linkin Park
Miss someone to share my thoughts with
What a jerk
Re: Trying to decide if this warrants a trip to the doctor...
Smoking
Re: B&B Lounge - The Grand Re-Openning!
UGGGGH!!!
Re: Just playing around
Re: Hard Week - Still in Shock
visitation
Parents say the darndest things
I'm embarrassed!!
Give It A Rest Whydontcha
AHHHHH I just did something sooo stupid
Re: MLB Playoffs pick'em.
Re: Buyers remorse?
Heads up gang.
Re: Just Freaking LISTEN!
Sometimes you just have to lose it!
Before I begin ....
Re: Do the kids come first???
K anyone into hardware?
Freakin' Humidity
Re: Disclaimers
Re: in threes?
Re: the ex slammed me with custody papers today
Re: I have no will power...
My wife just left and..
Re: Hate Him!
Password Sharing
Meaningful political activism
Re: I'm the Leaver
Penguins are great friends
He keeps his wedding ring on his keychain.
Happy Random Vent
feeling down
okay...so she wants more rent money....?
Re: Looking for a good love song...
Re: To make myself feel a little better... gas prices?
Ex-FIL dying
Intestinal Issues
had to leave husband...
italian meat loaves
Re: This is Fun!!!
Re: My sister just told me she's pregnant
Re: FYI - deleted threads
Re: Divorce, New Job, New City and I'm tired!!
Re: i want to email him
Re: Does anybody else feel like this?
I AM BACK!! Miss me?
Re: Have you gain/loss weight since the breakup?
DEBT up to our eyeballs... how do we make it
I'm officially an idiot
Re: Friend and mentor
Dear Husband
Short Version
My wedding would have been Saturday...
I hope you realized what you did on what would have been our wedding day.
Re: Someone Please tell me what a Healthy Girlfriend does ??
grrr... stupid EI
Fair is Fair
Ex has been surgically removed....
Re: Burned
OJar scheduled outage.
Re: Thank you Michael.
Am I being tested or what?
Member gallery voluteer sought.
Re: Me and my "Joe Wishy Washy" ex
Re: %^!%^$%# STBXW ^%#@$!%!
Re: The Real Difference Between the Leaver and the Left...
Re: Lo-Tech Member Gallery II
Re: NHL NHL NHL NHL.....
Re: Weird dates
Re: Camaraderie between Ojarians
A new promise ................ to myself
Re: Back in the Game - Need Some Help
Re: Quick, need advice....
Re: How long is it acceptable to grieve/vent/whine for?
depressed
Re: Hope and Blessings...an update from Jason
Re: Fighting my urge to beat the Sh!t out of him
Re: Good date ideas?
Re: More random thoughts
Good Riddance!
Re: How to Tell you're dating
Re: Sox & Sox
Question for the "Leavers" out there
Frustrated
Re: Killing him isn't an option is it????
Just processing.
long time no see every thing undate on whats going on
Re: My Wife Left Me 20 Days Ago
Re: Feeling Blue
Re: Where for art thou absolute?
My NASA Man!
Well, It's been awhile...
Re: Do you have gas...
Re: Katie Holmes Pregnant???
Portents
I don't understand
please help now, before......
To My Sisters...
YAY TEACHERS!!!!
this is to hard
Re: My daughters teacher.....
Re: I'm just happy today, I can't explain it
Rib hurts
My life in the fast lane--UPDATES
Go to Sleep
Re: Conversation with daughter....
Hungover @ work...what was I thinking?
back in court
Re: Reflections on my 1001 post
Is it not possible that he hurts...
PMs
Re: why is he not calling?
Re: So I had this....
Re: Tell me about online dating please
Grant Writing
What is the point of bringing in a "child specialist" to help her adjust to
Re: So, how many of us are divorced b/c of gay spouse?
Talk about getting your panties in a bunch about nothing
My weird need for ....
Re: Advice needed
how do you find the self control?
Baby names
Photograph-Nickleback
Baby name question?
Might not be the place........?
Not a vent per se, but some perspective...
Crash
Update one
My own thread (sequel to The Death of Something Beautiful)
I've been on this site for 7 hours
I'm a crocodile.
Re: joint legal custody???
I need advice.
How do you stop loving someone?
Trust, skepticism & other issues (long)
I wanna know
Just to add a complication
Ok...the tub is about to over fill
Withdrawing from school.
Grrr. Single Motherhood Stinks Sometimes.
Any get to sleep tips
beep....beep....beep....be....b...............
F*CK
True to form (long)
technical assistance please
You'll Think of Me
Help, need advice please
"I obviously wasn't your first priority."
An Old Crush
Right Here
LIAR
letter from ex's attorney......
as soon as I have the money
Hard to give up anger
Kansas City on October 17th?
Re: Does anyone believe in right and wrong anymore?
is grass greener on the other side?
new to daycare and afterschool program
ear rings
Happy Birthday YellowJacket!!!
Spinningincircles...where are you?
what do i do now..
I don't get it still
Has anyone had problems at work b/c of this?
Hell
Need to add more
MAJOR DRAMA! (DOCS ARE SIGNED - Read Page 2)
Are they male or female?
*HAPPY DANCE*
$%^!&STBXW's Crazy family$%^!%!
ugh to coffee
Will I ever date again?
interview is today!
Re: For............EVER?
another weekend
My first ever joke posting! :)
THANKSGIVING!!!!!
Share with me.........
I am new to ex girlfriends....
Re: FRIENDS LOUNGE - where everybody knows your name
Leo?
Pain
Just when I thought things were going my way...
Where Have You Been?
Re: Has anyone's X found you here???
Fallin Out Of Love
So, here is what I did today
And what are you doing today?
Peanut says
tips on a good day....
After my day
just a thought
Re-conciled
Re: No intimacy

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