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Am I Wrong?
Men can be JERKS
Personal Lives clause in Separation Agreement?
Virtue is hard to find
Words women use
Tech support for women
umm yeah
Confusion confusion confusion...what should I do?
€15,000 to leave the country???!
What should I do?
Exactly how do you date?
My In-Laws Seem To Have Forgotten I'm The Good Guy...
Alone and scared
Today I am broken
5yr old plays rated M xbox game
the best dear john letter
Is it easier to become friends with the same sex that cheated on you?
Anyone with/been with a reformed cheater?
Anyone with/been with a reformed cheater?
July 21, 2004 - New visitor record!
Promotion Coming
JUSTIFIABLE HOMICIDE
TO REALIZE THE VALUE OF.........
An Oldie But Still A Good One
Sold The Porsche For The Ex
Self-Hypnosis for Stress Release
A WOMAN'S PRAYER
A WOMAN'S PERFECT BREAKFAST
40TH WEDDING ANNIVERSAY WISH
A BIT OF MALE BASHING
A MISER'S DYING WISH
WHAT ARE YOU IN FOR?
MARRIAGE - PART I-IV
Found an Old Christmas Card
The end of firsts
Long time no speak...and my own personal news
email
Tired of being alone.
Update on my love life !
when do you know its really over in your heart
Married Friends
Does it ever end ?
What should I expect?
Need advice tonight: SO PISSED
Hurt and Angry
Last Night
First Post, My Wife wants to seperate
Breakup Songs
Hope to make you smile...
avril
nobody's home
Frustrated
Old Member New Found Strength??
relatives
I hate that he still gets to me!
Somethin' to make you Smile!
He wants to reconcile, I don't
I figured this would be worthy of a new topic
meds and anxiety
Guilt
Songs that make you feel good...
Lost and Confused
newtochatrooms
Doesn't any one care
one small step for jenny...
Help! Property Issue
Noooooo.... It's too late!!!!
Anybody in AZ anymore?
The last year has been terrible
Need Advice
Noooo Too Late :: Act II
Need advice
From Good To Ugly
The Gospel according to Betty Crocker
Update on the new life
I thought this would pass
Re:CAN I BE ON THIS SITE?
August 29th - Countdown begins
Why Me?
Friday nights
Florida -- Here I Come!!!!
Haven't been here in a while
Karate Promotion
Too Late :: Act III
Timing of post-D relationships
When will it end?
Is this what I have to look forward to?
Got Served Today
STBX learned of GF and goes through roof......
Anniversary Blues
I'm flirt impared
I need help
Oi! Oi!
What are men looking for?
What is the meaning of life?
Breakup Announcements, like Wedding Announcements
Gettin out into the world again
Eharmony Irony
Wife Left....because she is a lesbian
TV - "Divorce" movies
Never Been HERE (input please)
strung along and hurting
another attempt
the Nerve
Too Late :: Act IV
British Hospitality
closure...will it ever come?
Any thoughts?
Trained - Finally
Falling in love while married 2
Scamming clown!
One day and counting
koffi
Wow what a change...
Guys How do you know a girl...
Support Group
Top 10 Reasons I NEED to Vent
WELL...WHERE DO I START
i cant forget him
Ticket !
Good Songs
total opposites
Personals/Meeting UP
Re:Staying Friends?
Even after everything it's still so hard to let her go.
OMG !!!
Bummed
Ok, how do you do this?
Now What
Conference Hearing
I want to scream!!!
TV shows!!!
THE BA$TARD IS GOING FOR ALIMONY
this song made me laugh sooo long
Soooo lonely!!!
Wedding song
35
Living on Autopilot
Ugh, Why do I even try...
More than meets the eye...
More important than remembering your lines...
Debating whether to send...
Helps me through the day
What do you do?
Can you be friends w/ someone you're attracted to?
Old Timer checking in....
How Did/Could This Happen? Sorry so long
I Love Myself Today! by Bif Naked
This is too much for me
My Story
how do I make him leave???
doc on a date
Rambling
jobs
Checking in on my OJAR friends....
DFW Area OJAR Pals
cant handle these feelings
Speed Dating?
Just a good day
break up in a foreign country
can't understand
it's almost over
Open Marriages ?!?
My lil' man turned 5 today
What now?
A Question of Sex?
Inevitable End
feeling out of control
single dad
Why care about ex In-laws
I feel free
On The Other Side - Lessons Learned
Getting Back to Where I Was
Totally Blindsided by this
child support!
Forca
My Sarcastic Letter
I'm Back - anyone miss me?
Hard day tomorrow
I'm losing it
anti-depress side effects
To you
got a question
Anyone read "Rebuilding - When Your Relationship Ends"
Is there hope for women with children?
fix for a broken heart?
How do I do it?
Got to get it straight
Single Dad
sad getting sadder
Losing an entire life
Where Would You Be - Martina McBride
First Post...Wife Moving Out Tomorrow
Jack and Jill
Divorce final
Time for a change
Having Adultery Issues Again
I didn't cry
How do I stop by emailing my ex?
"Conversation Pieces"
Losing respect for Ex - What do you think of this??
Anyone ever use online divorce/separation services and/or software?
What should I do?
Another to you
I Will Go On
Being honest with myself
The down side of being single
kind of a lopsided vent... and very long
Games people play
To the fool that left me
Limerick to share
I am so stupid
If only wishes could come true?
The meaning of life
Bad habits
Would like answer to this one?
How soon to before I call again?
To by STBX
When does it get better?
woe is me!
Mediatin Tomorrow
Should I send this?
Single Dad Needs Positive Words
Looking ahead
Feeling guilty, but shouldn't?
Why am I beating myself up?
Is it possible to get back together?
daughter
daughter
love for my daughter
In-laws in denial?
should I be depressed?
Silly Question
James McGreevey, for shame!
Ojar Addict
Need Advice
Well, here I am...
Ding Dong the B**ch is Gone
For CJ - at what age did you.....
Auction - Bubba
Yo..have a nice weekend!
Legally Separated Fool
I need some good running songs
Olympics
Rotting Avocado
funny jingle
Final Hearing Cancelled Again
Anyone in Las Vegas?
Guilt
Are all men shy?
Fast as I can
200th post
When "confused" becomes confusing...
Have a nice life...
Wanted ....
Pathological Lier for an EX-seriously
any advice?
Dogs help healing
Several Screws LOOSE!!!
EZ, long shot, but if you check in.
Have a nice life
Not ready for today
Saw an e-mail...
Went out last night...
DIVORCE FINAL
Meeting People...
When does hope become destructive?
Heard Over Airline Speakers
Do they think I'm that dumb????????
Date or wait?
2x I have struck out
Custody/visitation concerns
11th Anniversary today... NOT!
Why does it feel like it is getting worse again?
request advice
Did Ojar lose weight? Oh yeah!
Wedding of an old friend...
What if...
Pressure Tactics
moving out of the area
Appropriate time for child to meet new partner?
I'm unhappy... so what?
Great Day!!
Betrayed by my best friend and husband.
Divorcing ladies close to the age of 30.
Parents say the darndest things
my story
Today is a Good day
I feel like a heel
STBX shows up last night
out of town/state child
Divorce - The Broadway Musical!
as things get better, I feel worse
Post Divorce Legal Mess
What to do?
Penguin Extreme
anyone in PA?
Moving on
Deadbeat Dad Award
If you're in need of a few laughs as I have been the past few days....
Got a question
Can he legally file in another county?
Beaming....
It's official!!
Letter that I emailed my EX...boy does it feel GREAT!!
Quit-Claim Deed?
my husband took my kids on false pretenses..
Any New Yorkers?
Have a nice life
Pressure Tactics Successful-Mission Accomplished!!
Skeletons
Five Months Since She Left....
Just the beginning for me
Am I crazy?
Reverted back to the ANGry phase
she didn't do crap
Wow! No Dallas OJAR people???
My divorce has been delayed UGGHHH!!!
Would you call the OW??
am I a nice guy or what?
Hi, new here - Your posts have helped!
Cumbersome - Seven Mary Three
Turned a new leaf
In sight
I feel so stupid
why is he torturing me??
Dating after divorce
out of town
Things are better
scared of becoming single
My New Theory on PMS - Yes, I'm Nuts
Karaoke night...
dating tips for men: an "After Action Review" from my last failed relationship
really confused
I Love U But I don't trust U anymore
My break-up songs...
Good song lyrics
ID ten T. seems to be alot of them.
So Scared - Should we live together until the divorce is over??
Michigan Detroit area
Just Like You...
Part Time Jobs
What to do
When does the hurting end?
Divorce Final in a week give or take a day
Frustration!
military questions
why don't people take marriage more seriously.
Have a nice life
My First Date since Separation
Feel like a shmuck!
Good Day Yesterday
Dont know what to do
A complete shutout!
Re:What have I done...
Hurt
Break-up Interupted
Ex-boyfriend was a cold fish suffering from Premature Ejac*******
Depression and relationships
Good on Paper, Bad in Bed - Any Thoughts?
His rantings
Limbo Schmimbo
Freaking out
I miss us.
what is going on?
finally decided to spend time to myself
What is she doing?
Where do I begin?
A beautiful day
Yippee!! I made it through
better for tonight
Maybe not "wonderful", but decent!
The S2BXhole strikes again
I got CARDED
Complicated Problem
I am really heart and chocked, plz help!!!
Why...
Feeling bad again
Would you help your Ex in this situation?
Post Break Up Actions to Feel Slightly Better
Rectum Stretcher
'Gunshy' or not
great
Maroon 5 - She Will Be Loved
Has anyone read the e-book on getting over your ex
Sugababes - Hole in the Head
1st post but need help
I Can't Make You Love Me - Bonnie Raitt
Moments of Clarity
Should I Stay Or Should I Go???
hello all
Happy Birthday SafetyKC!
He got OW a cell phone on our family plan!
"One Last Wish"
Women & Romance?
The blues are back
Trying to understand Men...
The Curse of the Self
finding peace
Letting Go
Online dating Sucks!
Separation Agreement in Canada
Feeling depressed last couple days
Snooping Helps In Letting Go
running amuck?
removed by kinney
the first cut is the deepest--Cat Stevens
sadeye - Pretty Things
Anxious and confused
After a year.. everything now is different
I am so ANGRY
Am I In Trouble??
Better days
Jealous, Am I The Only One Who Thinks This Way???
any tips?
Quotes
Obsessive Compulsive Pre-Date Behavior
Bad day, bad month, bad year
when doves cry------Prince
chick magnet
Even after 8 months I miss her
Wants OW but doesnt want divorce.......
She Left and I deserve it
Revenge!
Have a nice life
how?
Sad
Anger, Denial etc. author dies!
Have a nice life
slipping again
only a 4 days into this
just a question
remortgage home while going through a divorce
D Day
Wife has gone
Your spouses relationship with the other
What value will I be ?
Types of Flowers
Okay, need serious opinion - WWYD?
Post Break-Up Nightmares
Still struggling
don't drink people...
Derailed trains and other defective methods of getting from A to B....
Re:Back at it again
I'm in a very strange state
He wanted to void the marriage and projected it onto me
Final Nail in the Coffin.....
Marriage resulting from Betrayal...
completely confused
Getting through the weekend
sick and tired
A whipped dog
OK, but then another kick in the N__ts!
Is it possible
It's Friday night and I aint got nobody
damn it!!
I am so lame. Help!
across state lines and release of "P" rights
Saturday! Saturday! Saturday!
just vented on the stbx
Sunday, Bloody Sunday
1st time post - just divorced
If I don't send this - it is good to send it somewhere.
Need help from somewhere
painful day but i did do something
Going back to school!
Dating again
My unsent letter -part 1
Suggestions
hey, I've just noticed, I'm free..........
Meeting the Parents,,,,,
My heart crumbled last night
Kinney, check this out
Congratulations! Boyfriend (Ex) of the Year Award (with Vodka)
Good Apples
Re:Defining Gunshy!
What I did wrong... and hello to group
Limbo
Just another manic monday
Morning Voice Mail.....
The ULTIMATE divorce settlement - for women!
How to handle it?
I'm dating again...having a blast...but one question
Have a nice life
Tough Day
ok I admit it........
Today's shennanigans
You will be sorry one day.......
the weight of memories
a favorite of mine
Feeling Good

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