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how can I co-parent with the stbx how can I co-parent with the stbx.
They They.
SMILE raised to infinity SMILE raised to infinity.
Do I give it another shot? Do I give it another shot?.
need help/support need help/support.
to the ladies, I apologize to the ladies, I apologize.
Going out of town Going out of town.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
The paperwork has begun. The paperwork has begun..
Only been married 1.5 months Only been married 1.5 months.
Ready to play? Ready to play?.
a helpful book about troubled marriages a helpful book about troubled marriages.
Thank you Thank you.
new guy new guy.
anyone been through this anyone been through this.
Tuesday's gone (going) with the wind Tuesday's gone (going) with the wind.
Anyone from Connecticut? Anyone from Connecticut?.
confused confused.
finally had a positive morning finally had a positive morning.
STBX called - wants to talk... STBX called - wants to talk....
extremely frustrated extremely frustrated.
hopeless feelings hopeless feelings.
Question Question.
Confused....input please Confused....input please.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
He took my trust, cats, friends, family & life... He took my trust, cats, friends, family & life....
Holidays-what to do? Holidays-what to do?.
Angry email... Angry email....
unknown territory unknown territory.
Court Date Off Again Court Date Off Again.
Emotional disconnection ? Emotional disconnection ?.
I need help desperately....!!! Please Read I need help desperately....!!! Please Read.
Another post about dreams Another post about dreams.
OJar in SC?? OJar in SC??.
son of a B***h son of a B***h.
Sent this today. Sent this today..
Last ditch effort by ex to sabotage me Last ditch effort by ex to sabotage me.
NEW HERE...HELLO NEW HERE...HELLO.
Need advice... Need advice....
Set Back Set Back.
Sail Away From the Safe Harbour Sail Away From the Safe Harbour.
Laughing at myself Laughing at myself.
Party by myself Party by myself.
Post Divorce Professinal Help???? Post Divorce Professinal Help????.
How do you deal with kids? How do you deal with kids?.
For the women For the women.
Hit my neighbor's parked car Hit my neighbor's parked car.
STBX came over last night STBX came over last night.
Labor Day weekend Labor Day weekend.
Grass is greener Grass is greener.
This weekend sucks. This weekend sucks..
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Sign papers tomorrow Sign papers tomorrow.
Officially MY house! Officially MY house!.
feel like I'm going all the way back. feel like I'm going all the way back..
What I'm ready for: What I'm ready for:.
Channeling Dennis Leary Channeling Dennis Leary.
Blame...(kinda long article) Blame...(kinda long article).
DOUBT DOUBT.
just so depressed just so depressed.
"its not right" "its not right".
damn Winger damn Winger.
Finally Got Smart Finally Got Smart.
Even though you know that..... Even though you know that......
how about that wedding ring how about that wedding ring.
a new struggle a new struggle.
The Ojar Bar The Ojar Bar.
Nightmares? Nightmares?.
Help, remind me why Im doing this Help, remind me why Im doing this.
I'd rather I'd rather.
Divorce Prayer Divorce Prayer.
Who here has AOL? Who here has AOL?.
It's Friday, and I'm not in love It's Friday, and I'm not in love.
Change of lifestyle? Change of lifestyle?.
Just venting Just venting.
Here's my idea Here's my idea.
MOVED: Just venting MOVED: Just venting.
Safety Tips Safety Tips.
Does anybody have anything positive to say? Does anybody have anything positive to say?.
To Freakazoid To Freakazoid.
Had a couple of songs make me cry today... Had a couple of songs make me cry today....
What to do with STBX's stuff? What to do with STBX's stuff?.
Therapy made me think Therapy made me think.
stbx wants new start (w/o me) stbx wants new start (w/o me).
Today Today.
need advice need advice.
Looking for exercise buddies Looking for exercise buddies.
The Ojar chat does exist The Ojar chat does exist.
How did you stop caring so much? How long? How did you stop caring so much? How long?.
homemade Hummus!! YUM!!! homemade Hummus!! YUM!!!.
What a day yesterday... What a day yesterday....
Denial or intuition? Denial or intuition?.
My Story My Story.
CHAT? CHAT?.
Shout at the Devil Shout at the Devil.
New!! New!!.
(Long Posting) Now I don't want to get off on a rant here, but (Long Posting) Now I don't want to get off on a rant here, but.
The Lone Ojarian The Lone Ojarian.
Somebody PLEASE help me! Somebody PLEASE help me!.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
downward cycle! Help! downward cycle! Help!.
Lonely on Labor day Weekend Lonely on Labor day Weekend.
Things I will never say to him Things I will never say to him.
What next? What next?.
Losing her family Losing her family.
No Child Support? And do I need a Atty? No Idea. Help! No Child Support? And do I need a Atty? No Idea. Help! .
Going Back Home Today Going Back Home Today.
I am *not* after your man! I am *not* after your man!.
A dream... I remember.. that made me happy. A dream... I remember.. that made me happy..
Dreams--Kenny Chesney Dreams--Kenny Chesney.
I just realized... I just realized....
I don't know where this goes, but I finally did it.... I don't know where this goes, but I finally did it.....
Long hot weekend Long hot weekend.
scared about tomorrow scared about tomorrow .
Time stands still Time stands still.
Can you tell me what this really means? Can you tell me what this really means?.
Question for the ladies Question for the ladies.
flippant attitude flippant attitude.
I realized something tonight... I realized something tonight....
Movin' On Up ... Movin' On Up ....
My phone has stopped ringing...I hope! My phone has stopped ringing...I hope!.
Stbx's birthday today Stbx's birthday today.
No idea? No idea?.
Dear Greta Dear Greta.
The long weekend awakening The long weekend awakening.
a rough night a rough night.
At what point do I just give up and accept the OW? At what point do I just give up and accept the OW?.
A simple update A simple update.
just not happy at all ... just not happy at all ....
Why am I even surprised? Why am I even surprised?.
Karma revisited Karma revisited.
Can you relate..... Can you relate......
The Friendship Crisis by Marla Paul The Friendship Crisis by Marla Paul.
What do you want? What do you want?.
No need for sex No need for sex.
My husband says he needs time My husband says he needs time .
When is it appropriate... When is it appropriate....
Realized this morning Realized this morning.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Re:What does someone want from me? Re:What does someone want from me?.
emotional yo-yo emotional yo-yo.
stbx dating stbx dating.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
What the F is wrong with me. What the F is wrong with me..
What the What the .
My stbx is really annoying!!! My stbx is really annoying!!!.
Real Pain Real Pain.
Big Guy feeling bad Big Guy feeling bad.
Wow, long time no update. Wow, long time no update..
Lying Lawyers in Illinois..no where else? Lying Lawyers in Illinois..no where else?.
Got the papers today Got the papers today.
Saw The STBX Today Saw The STBX Today.
Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love.
The Blanket Statement The Blanket Statement.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Thank God for my Friends Thank God for my Friends.
Fall to Pieces Fall to Pieces.
She's not in love with me anymore She's not in love with me anymore.
finaly soooo much better finaly soooo much better.
Off to see an Olympic equestrian trainer! Off to see an Olympic equestrian trainer!.
a BIG Thankyou! a BIG Thankyou!.
Being lonely sucks!!! Being lonely sucks!!!.
It's unfair so tell me what do u think? It's unfair so tell me what do u think?.
My story My story.
Sick Feeling Sick Feeling.
Is it wonderful Is it wonderful.
Re:My plan Re:My plan.
Things To Do In Denver When You're Divorced Things To Do In Denver When You're Divorced.
vulture culture vulture culture.
Why? Why?.
He took her to the same Broadway show ... He took her to the same Broadway show ....
what the f**k what the f**k.
Simple things Simple things.
when do you give up? when do you give up? .
Redemption Redemption.
Ouch! Ouch!.
The s2bx called today...... The s2bx called today.......
Just a thought Just a thought.
Regrets... Regrets....
good, bad and the ugly good, bad and the ugly.
what is the difference between loving and being in love what is the difference between loving and being in love.
finally a good day finally a good day.
Final Hearing Date Accelerated!! Final Hearing Date Accelerated!!.
Dating a Divorce Woman ... Dating a Divorce Woman ... .
She left but she will not leave She left but she will not leave.
Tomorrow Tomorrow.
Grounds for Divorce ?s Grounds for Divorce ?s.
Dating Tip for Women Dating Tip for Women.
Stages Stages.
Weekend Weekend.
Dirty Rings Dirty Rings.
Time to Poll the audience Time to Poll the audience.
Anyone else drinking? Anyone else drinking?.
weird being 3rd wheel weird being 3rd wheel.
New beginnings New beginnings.
still broken still broken.
What about the holidays? What about the holidays?.
Re:ISO and matts friday night dinner show Re:ISO and matts friday night dinner show.
Separation vs you know Separation vs you know.
I am so stupid I am so stupid.
I am a God. I am a God..
Vienna, Austria or neighbouring countries? Vienna, Austria or neighbouring countries?.
Shy and 1 friend, now what? Shy and 1 friend, now what?.
depressed and spiraling... depressed and spiraling....
Wife leaves me today - such a helpless feeling Wife leaves me today - such a helpless feeling.
Need advice because I am sending it next week Need advice because I am sending it next week.
in-laws in-laws .
san francisco area san francisco area.
Am I in denial? Am I in denial?.
Sad Today... Sad Today....
Am I really this stupid??? Am I really this stupid???.
yet another kick @ss night yet another kick @ss night.
Dear Greta Part 2 Dear Greta Part 2.
separated....& he didn't respond within the 30 days.. separated....& he didn't respond within the 30 days...
Two Houses Two Houses.
Stupid Girl Feeling Stupid Stupid Girl Feeling Stupid.
any opinions welcome. thanx. any opinions welcome. thanx..
Proud of myself Proud of myself.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Too everyone!! Too everyone!!.
Unwanted touches. Unwanted touches..
Found a New one to make me cry Found a New one to make me cry.
Stop Jerking me around... Stop Jerking me around....
feeling confused feeling confused.
Anyone in Illinois out there? Anyone in Illinois out there?.
He calls me "Boo" He calls me "Boo".
s2bx's birthday next week.... s2bx's birthday next week.....
Scream Scream.
First Weekend Alone First Weekend Alone.
will i ever stop feeling empty? will i ever stop feeling empty?.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Feeling Heartless today. Feeling Heartless today..
Depression After Long Ago Divorce Depression After Long Ago Divorce.
3rd date 3rd date.
3rd date 3rd date.
Am I wrong? Am I wrong?.
Texas? Texas?.
3 months and feeling worse 3 months and feeling worse.
Single Parents ... Single Parents ....
Wow - I can still be shocked Wow - I can still be shocked.
How do I prove adultery?? How do I prove adultery??.
Do good men exist??? Do good men exist???.
Original Dates Original Dates.
Is she working with me ???? Is she working with me ????.
Stupid Stupid man Stupid Stupid man.
crying like I haven't in 4 months crying like I haven't in 4 months.
Final Hearing is Tomorrow! Final Hearing is Tomorrow! .
Bi-Polar? Bi-Polar?.
FINALLY! FINALLY!.
why I'm no bargain - inverse of "what I want" thread why I'm no bargain - inverse of "what I want" thread.
Fair warning...? Fair warning...?.
I give up I give up.
You used to ask what I wanted in a woman.. You used to ask what I wanted in a woman...
What a Shame! What a Shame!.
My day continued My day continued.
Advice for the Courtroom Advice for the Courtroom.
What happens at a final hearing? What happens at a final hearing? .
A womens time A womens time.
He disgusts me He disgusts me.
Wow once more... Wow once more....
do you still wear your ring? do you still wear your ring? .
Anyone awake? Anyone awake?.
Journaling Journaling.
He expects me to be friends with OW He expects me to be friends with OW.
Emotional Rollercoaster Emotional Rollercoaster.
funny funny.
Is it possible to change a child's name with out one of the parent's permissio Is it possible to change a child's name with out one of the parent's permissio.
doing better today doing better today.
Re:meeting with the s2bx Re:meeting with the s2bx.
Do you remember? Do you remember?.
Can men cry ?? Can men cry ??.
My sister's story - part I My sister's story - part I.
How did I get here? How did I get here?.
Untitled Untitled.
The History of Marriage The History of Marriage.
This sums it all up... This sums it all up....
The things from a marriage The things from a marriage.
Songs for inspiration... Songs for inspiration....
D-Day D-Day.
Walk On Walk On.
Pvt. Dazed meets Gen. Patton.. Pvt. Dazed meets Gen. Patton...
This is from my daughter =) This is from my daughter =).
Declaration of Disclosure paperwork? (in CA) Declaration of Disclosure paperwork? (in CA).
I'm Inspired (read on my friend) I'm Inspired (read on my friend).
Why does it take so long? Why does it take so long?.
I miss family dinners I miss family dinners.
Contact Contact.
Beat Me Dr. Phil Dolls Beat Me Dr. Phil Dolls.
anyone want to chat anyone want to chat.
Do I really care? Do I really care?.
Re:Almost over Re:Almost over.
OJar.com is more popular than... OJar.com is more popular than....
out of control out of control.
sad, just want get some feelings out sad, just want get some feelings out.
uncontested divorce uncontested divorce.
Twists, turns, pivots and a mighty shove... Twists, turns, pivots and a mighty shove....
Fighting the Good Fight Fighting the Good Fight.
I love you, but I'm not in love w/ you I love you, but I'm not in love w/ you.
Trial, settle, trial, settle, trial rollercoaster Trial, settle, trial, settle, trial rollercoaster.
another breakdown another breakdown.
For Trumpy For Trumpy.
Baby blues Baby blues.
Good at goodbye.. Good at goodbye...
AOL anyone? AOL anyone?.
Trust ?????? Trust ??????.
Anyone have a stalker before...need advice please! Anyone have a stalker before...need advice please!.
He got served today He got served today.
I finally received the truth from my wife I finally received the truth from my wife.
STBX says he is a great person? STBX says he is a great person?.
Getting Used To This Getting Used To This.
How I feel How I feel.
Hey, no buddies?! Hey, no buddies?!.
apartment apartment.
Hold On Hold On.
thoughless people thoughless people .
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Is this harassment? Is this harassment?.
Wife goes nuts ... Wife goes nuts ....
Staying away from bad girls... Staying away from bad girls....
for kickingMyself for kickingMyself.
I saw this coming. What now???? I saw this coming. What now????.
He told me he still loves me...help He told me he still loves me...help.
Is the affair my fault maybe?? Is the affair my fault maybe??.
military life sucks military life sucks.
Life Insurance and 401k Life Insurance and 401k.
Help! Since my final hearing, I can't stop eating! Help! Since my final hearing, I can't stop eating!.
unexpected call unexpected call.
I'm the bad guy? I'm the bad guy?.
Had "THE CONVERSATION" last night Had "THE CONVERSATION" last night.
Part 1 Relationship Dynamic, Doomed from the start??? Part 1 Relationship Dynamic, Doomed from the start???.
Part 2 Relationship Dynamic, Doomed from the start??? Part 2 Relationship Dynamic, Doomed from the start???.
Part 3 Relationship Dynamic, Doomed from the start??? Part 3 Relationship Dynamic, Doomed from the start???.
a fresh start a fresh start.
Bring On The Rain Bring On The Rain.
How long to wait before dating ? How long to wait before dating ?.
venting... venting....
Blog - one way to get it all out Blog - one way to get it all out.
lost lost.
Laughter Laughter.
Problems 4 years into Marriage Problems 4 years into Marriage.
Big Step Big Step.
I never thought things would be this way I never thought things would be this way.
MOVING, does it help? MOVING, does it help?.
Enough is enough? Enough is enough?.
Wife Moved Out & Not helping pay bills Wife Moved Out & Not helping pay bills.
The AIM ojar chatroom is open The AIM ojar chatroom is open.
Evening Evening.
Half-Baked Wedding Invite from Possible Fair Weather Friend Half-Baked Wedding Invite from Possible Fair Weather Friend.
Loose Lips Sink Ships Loose Lips Sink Ships.
Finally happy Finally happy.
25 and confused 25 and confused.
unforgiveable unforgiveable.
Need Advice !! Need Advice !!.
We had fun! We had fun!.
aahh...the weekend...AGAIN. aahh...the weekend...AGAIN..
In the absence of Gen. Patton... In the absence of Gen. Patton....
Do you Financially $upport your Kiddo/s?? Do you Financially $upport your Kiddo/s??.
For Those Nice Guys.....like me For Those Nice Guys.....like me.
WOOT WOOT! WOOT WOOT!.
Good People Good People.
Chat? Chat?.
My husband has left...I want him back so badly. My husband has left...I want him back so badly..
Feeling good Feeling good.
Any one out there ????? Any one out there ?????.
Music Music.
wish me luck (please) wish me luck (please).
oh God, she's lying oh God, she's lying.
Just joined Just joined.
Tired of being alone Tired of being alone.
Mandolin Rain - Bruce Hornsby Mandolin Rain - Bruce Hornsby.
The weekend The weekend.
Tell me to hang on Tell me to hang on.
giving myself a good talking to!! giving myself a good talking to!!.
American Justice American Justice.
so, what comes next? so, what comes next?.
Laundry Emergency! HELP!! Laundry Emergency! HELP!!.
There should be a law... There should be a law....
Ohio? Ohio?.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Still in this Funk Still in this Funk.
Odd WoMan Out Odd WoMan Out.
Putting myself in charge! Putting myself in charge! .
The Chain The Chain.
silver springs silver springs.
whatever happened to peace, love and understanding? whatever happened to peace, love and understanding?.
Yet Another Weekend Yet Another Weekend.
I'm scared. I'm scared..
WhoooooooHoooooooo!!! WhoooooooHoooooooo!!!.
Dear Greta Dear Greta.
Weird reality Weird reality.
Chat open Chat open.
to Cloud from Cloud to Cloud from Cloud.
eek! i don't want to alienate my friends.... eek! i don't want to alienate my friends.....
Great Day, Bad Night Great Day, Bad Night.
Memories Memories.
what would it take for you to go back? what would it take for you to go back?.
sposal & Child abandonment, she left sposal & Child abandonment, she left.
Now what? Now what?.
And now - for the TWIST And now - for the TWIST.
Tired and tired Tired and tired.
Evil things that make you laugh Evil things that make you laugh.
Tough times they are Tough times they are.
When would you not try counciling first? When would you not try counciling first?.
Sent this to the OW... Sent this to the OW....
Tough times they are and Here I go Tough times they are and Here I go.
The 180 The 180.
New Here-my story New Here-my story.
Newbie has questions Newbie has questions.
Question for those who have been dating since their divorce Question for those who have been dating since their divorce.
My First Session My First Session.
a long time ago a long time ago.
internet dating addiction internet dating addiction.
New Car New Car.
And now comes the lies? And now comes the lies?.
It's Official! Ojar camp is now accepting reservations! It's Official! Ojar camp is now accepting reservations!.
It's Official! Ojar camp is now accepting reservations! It's Official! Ojar camp is now accepting reservations!.
Mercy, mercy me... Mercy, mercy me....
CONVERSE CONVERSE.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
made the appointment... made the appointment....
Re:Don't give me that BS! Re:Don't give me that BS!.
Re:Friendship Re:Friendship.
Why would someone want to? Why would someone want to?.
Wife left and needs to be independent Wife left and needs to be independent.
to SGT EVIL to SGT EVIL .
Did I make the worst decision ever? Did I make the worst decision ever?.
From bad to ugly... From bad to ugly....
He bought the OW kids toys He bought the OW kids toys.
I thought I could handle it I thought I could handle it.
Feeling So Good.... Feeling So Good.....
Life Goes On.. : ) Life Goes On.. : ).
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Need advice Need advice.
The Ring? The Ring?.
Talked to stbx Talked to stbx.
I refuse I refuse.
limits with my own family limits with my own family.
We signed yesterday......Im misreable We signed yesterday......Im misreable.
What a question!! What a question!!.
emotional disconnect? emotional disconnect?.
twice in a week... twice in a week....
Toads Toads.
Guilt Guilt.
The Incredible Shrinking Woman The Incredible Shrinking Woman.
Divorce between states Divorce between states.
To Her Mother and Family To Her Mother and Family.
cyber stalking creep cyber stalking creep.
Welcome to the First Day of Fall! Welcome to the First Day of Fall!.
Crushing Crushing.
Q for the Guys (sorry ladies) Q for the Guys (sorry ladies).
File or Not HEPL HELP File or Not HEPL HELP.
Thought I was doing ok.... Thought I was doing ok.....
Missing my ex...starting to feel very sick.... Missing my ex...starting to feel very sick.....
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
KY or TN KY or TN.
one for the ladies.. one for the ladies...
one for a friend.. one for a friend...
one for the guys one for the guys.
She says she wants to remain friends then pulls this She says she wants to remain friends then pulls this.
$1310 Cell Phone Bill ... What is wrong with him?? $1310 Cell Phone Bill ... What is wrong with him??.
He didn't pay the rent He didn't pay the rent.
The beginning of the end The beginning of the end.
today is the last day today is the last day.
narcissistic tendencies ????? narcissistic tendencies ?????.
Finally Woken - Jem Finally Woken - Jem.
Still trying...and trying....and trying.... Still trying...and trying....and trying.....
THE MEMBERS KEEP COMING THE MEMBERS KEEP COMING.
She never stops amazing me... She never stops amazing me....
Two for two moods... Two for two moods....
And I still mean every word... And I still mean every word....
why I hate the phone bill... why I hate the phone bill....
I may have to face him I may have to face him.
radio ojar radio ojar.
OMG it just keeps getting worse ... OMG it just keeps getting worse ... .
faking it faking it.
how the §$%&! does one go about this? how the §$%&! does one go about this?.
Weird but Nice Weird but Nice.
So much better than expected So much better than expected.
just some thoughts just some thoughts.
Dear Princess Foo Foo.... Dear Princess Foo Foo.....
First Milestone First Milestone.
how quickly you forget.... how quickly you forget.....
How Life is Measured How Life is Measured.
Just checking in from the "other side" Just checking in from the "other side".
Attorney/Client Conflict - questions Attorney/Client Conflict - questions.
R.E.M R.E.M.
Post tramatic stress? Post tramatic stress?.

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