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Name change as part of divorce
Filed my complaint/Adultery Question
Expecting a separation agreement any day..
Now what do I do?
NYS Separation Agreement
Adultery and Filing For Divorce
What happens in court???
Need Help
financial obligation
Spousal Support to Ex-Husband
Separation
divorced
SO confused!!
Condos for sale
Parental Rights (Children)
Why does it take so freaking long??
Summary Dissolution of Marriage
how to write a letter to the judge....
Will I lose the house too?!
Non Marrital property
Re: lawyers as therapists
Stupid comments
Need Some Advice
Advice to newcomers
How to answer "the question"
inlaws
Rebound relationships???
Sex vs. intimacy/love
dealing w/friend's problems??
My Mom Is Good...
Friend troubles
Family not supportive of reconciliation
Couldn't Take Anymore
So when do they get sick of us?
No money anymore-so where are they now?
Am I suppose to be silent?
Torn between spounse and friends
I Feel Like an Outsider
"I Told You So" Hurts Too
Moving on.. People and Parents..
Wary couples
My wife's Mom
Sticky Situation??
advice for the newcomer please
child emotions after visitation
Lunch with my son
Any suggestions?
The little ones get hurt too
scared of his lies
custody fight
lost
Day Care Blues....
any daddys out there?
Little one
Court
I need advice please!!!
Contacting children
Never let them make you the scapegoat!
question
daughters mood swings
How are Children effected by Homosexual Relationsh
my son and her boyfriend
Distance and parenting?
Concerned about custody
Angry child
Children's Rights
Shared Parenting
Blood test
Going to drown in debt
READ READ READ-IMPORTANT INFO!
Scared to live on my own
How bad is it...really?
School Loans
any way around debt?
I want some money
Posession Division
For Sale By Owner
She is not helping
spending up big
401K liquidation
Does anyone have any extra.....
Car loan in her name
Chapter 7 Bankruptcy?
Bad credit
OJar in Washington
Ojar in Indiana
NEED support in OHIO
OJar around Washington
OJar in NJ, DE or PA?
Calling all L.A.ers...
Anyone else in LA?
Need support in IL
Ojar around NV, UT, CO
OJar in NC?
San Francisco or Marin County?
OJar around Texas
Is there anyone out there??
OJar in Washington, D.C.
Maryland?
Anyone in North Dakota?
Anyone in AZ?
What about Minnesota?
OJAR in ATL or BAMA?
OJar in Kansas
OJar in Oklahoma
Anyone From Ohio
Is anyone else from Louisiana?
OJar around Kentucky
Ojar in Florida
Ojar in Illinois
Ojar in New York!?!
OJar in Canada
Ojar in Michigan
Ojar in Dominican Republic? Yeah right!!!
OJar IN CT?
Rhode Island, the Ocean State!
OJar in the United Kingdom
OJar in Germany
OJar in Thailand
OJar in Australia and NZ
Complexities of separation at a young(ish) age
my son's diagnosis
Annulment
support place for significant others of divorcees?
The OJar Gang
Wondering if it ever stops????
Did you know this?
Aug 7, 2003
Aug 4, 2003
July 12, 2003
July 10, 2003
Aug 8, 2003
Upgraded mesg. board.
Re:IS LOVE ENOUGH TO MAKE IT WORK!
My sob story. Do I deserve something better?
QUESTION?
leave"ees" dealing with guilt? self-pity?
Food discussion
Aug 9, 2003
Is that a ring?
Aug 10, 2003
I think I need to break our contact...
Should I try to send an E-mail?
Aug 11, 2003
My Immortal
Bring Me To Life
I am going to scream!!!!
two good weeks..then crash
going under
have to meet with stbx
recipe search
Time to start planning Ojar gathering #2
Aug 12, 2003
I just don't understand...
Poll for possible locations of Ojar party #2
MOVED: "Secret" Project.
Confused...
mediation
Making light with humor..
I just had to tell SOMEBODY!!!
right back where i started
hurting here
Aug 13, 2003
separation ??
Linking Ex-lover Humiliation and Depression
Fell in a hole..
My favorite Quote
Jokes go here.
daves update/dating
met with ex last night
Who moves out ?
One more post about the Ojar party
To: Old Shoes-re: Las Vegas...
Aug 14, 2003
MOVED: Something To Make You Smile
MOVED: A funny quote...
Marriage
Dear Abby
Public Restrooms
Texas - strange facts
Joke
Fairytale... not!
WORDS FOR ALL MEN TO LIVE BY.......
Shopping joke
The Mr. Right Rejection Letter Form
Wish it would last....
Lifting my eyes
It hurts, when will i know when to LET GO
The pain re-surfaces
A great cook book for guys
Something I thought I'd share with you all.
Books on learning to live alone
Let me know what you guys think....
DRIVING ME CRAZY!
more hurt
Aug 16, 2003
The "BIG BLACKOUT" on the East Coast
I WONT FORGET
FIVE SECRETS OF A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP
Oldies
emotional relapse
The Dance by Garth Brooks
How about a funny book?
Righteously
need advice: route of asking for $ ??
refinance
My Story Pt 1
I got my tattoo!!!!
Aug 17, 2003
cupid = dumbass
YOUR MOVING WHERE?
This week is gonna be tough
s2bx is coming home from Iraq
WHY ME!
Today was 1st official court date
Denial....
I want an answer....
Speeding dating...AGAIN!
Hey... I *am* ALIVE!
VISA Jokes here
Funeral Procession
Life goes on....
Needs to Vent
going to miss the good things
Aug 19, 2003
last night
coming to Ojar more
Another Blonde Joke
clean bill of health
Up/down/up/DOWN
When is the spiritual marriage over?
Feeling Inadequate
OUCH! I let him get to me....
beef stew
Central California here
GYM = STRENGTH
Confusion or relief?
when to start dating?
getting over an affair
Chili
What confusion...where...hunh?
CoDependency and Respect
So are you still married?
for men only...
got shot down today
Aug 21, 2003
Poetry Board
Aug 22, 2003
Poem - my son
MOVED: Poem Lunch with my son
Re:Denial....Poem
MOVED: Re:Denial....Poem
"Storms" or "Emotional Storms"
"Confusion" - holding on
"The Plan" - our marriage plan
"The Emotional Well... ...Reflections of self"
"Cheat"
Your personality? Your ex's?
Very funny website
moving day
Mustard Anyone?
the road less travelled
Thank You Ojar!
"Birthday"
“Beauty in the day…things shared”
TOP FIVE KITCHEN PLAQUE SAYINGS
STEPCHILDREN
Are you kidding me? Worst pick up lines!
Here's one for the men...
HOLDING ON FOR THE WRONG REASONS
Feeling sick
OLDER RELATIVES
Lists to Live by
I'm now one of many
Need some reassurance...
my heartbreak
Aug 24, 2003
Pre-fab families
Things to look forward to!
Fairytale marriage
Most Embarassing First Date!
Bipolar Disorder Shocking Facts
Helping Your Child Through a Divorce - Web Article
How do you deal?
After 8 years...the end
anniversary gifts
About to crash
coming into the final few weeks before divorce
New Apt.
How often does your Ex/s2bx....
How easy was your divorce?
UNEXPLAINED EMOTIONS
THAT'S IT, I'VE FINALLY LOST IT!!
Mothers
Steps to Financial Freedom
depressed and heart broken AGAIN!
She finally got it!
Vacation to Vegas
She's moving out today!
swimmer
Aug 27, 2003
"delusional Webs"
"longing"
"Emotional Prison"
Lingering sadness....
The Post Office Bites!!!!
"Give me the strength"
My EX WIFE ,,, LAF
I don't think I'll be having an 'easy' divorce
So tired
It Don't Hurt
Hidden Assets
for women only
so he hasn't called.....
SALVAGABLE???
Song Lyrics--It only Hurts When I Breathe
My update - Ex is back in town with new "Sponsor"
newbie...how can it go from this to that????
bought a new grill
Re:Obsession
score: Lawyers 99 - Divorcing couple 0
The superficial "why my bf/gf is better than my ex" thread
New here....just looking for support (long)
Set back
Make him pay or let him go?
I'm such a guy
Re:Who are you?
Aug 28, 2003
Can he begin to forgive once it's final??
It Only Hurts When I'm Breathing
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!
"The New Path"
Confused and Stressed
filing?
Divorce Final Today
Still so angry after six months...
Re:Misc Rambiling and venting
I had no idea!
meeting with ??
Stop the world, I want to get off.
New here
True or false: We part as friends/live together
I'm being stomped on!
Emtions !
Separated and brokenhearted. What do I do now?
Thanks
Anxiety Attacks
"Wasted time" by the Eagles
Re:Anniversary Day
Venezuela? Ha ha
Back to that internet dating thing...
spinning my wheels
Baked Chicken
THE END!
calling all ex's
New Place
“Emotional Burnout”
Need Advice...
"Insecurity"
How could this happen?!?!?!
What Might Have Been..
Re:No More Lurking
Blaming myself
Deafening Silence---Is this the end, my friend?
Saying goodbye to S2BX - any advice?
Pain of the ex meeting someone
Landmines
"New Beginning"
"Sinking Ship"
My Story Part 1
Sept 3, 2003
Regret and lack of regret...
gossip
some conundrums and questions
first time here
Anyone in Northern Wisconsin???
Anyone feel this way?
question about the new design
tires...isnt that ridiculous?!?!?
Mediation
divorce process
In hindsight..would you do it over again?
REALITY CHECK!
Positive Steps...
Sure could use some help!
limboland v. divorce
staying busy
Ok to leave because one is Miserable?
reading this board reminds me...
may i take a minute
chat room
Doing the right thing?
QUALIFIED SPOUSES!
Don't look for this
Minimum Marriage Age
All done
He called me Her
Winter's Door
Love is Unkind
"Tides"
This Book Looks Pretty Good
Cold
Back from Vegas!!
Length of Marriage
When do the feelings stop.
Re:Anyone in Missouri?
Full survey of marriage length
Movie quotes
First date
Had a great weekend !!
Footloose and Fancy-free
Missing my H
sex for revenge
Do I wait?
The Rising
for those still going through the legal formality
the bible
"always stay logged in"
hmm...
Feeling Crowded
a quote from khalil gibran
Re:Why do we want the ones we cant have???
Aren't we supposed to hate them?
my husband left me
Re:any of you men left your wife?
I just got a call from her.....
Re:Shaking, Hurt, and needing to Vent
Re:Question for mothers of boys
Re:Loneliness
Losing my mind?
Anyone in GA (specifically ATL)
Slander?
Is there any hope here?
Goodbye to Romance - Ozzy Osbourne
still married and dating?
COUNSELING DOES IT WORK?
Massachusetts? Boston area?
What is going on here????
Why Do I Let Him
On my birthday? No, he wouldn't!
uncomfortable shoes
Take a minute to remember
being alone......sucess story
Need advice about this please
Re:Dealing with the others anger/depression
Need some good advice
Sept 11, 2003
parallel emotions
Cheating...
Kids & Extra Curricular Activities
the kids--I feel like I'm being shredded
"Circles"
Sept 13, 2003
Why?
"OJARGATE" -- Michael's thoughts.
Sept 14, 2003
control and marriage
Whether or NOT to take medication
Sept 15, 2003
Being Single
Comfort Food
QUESTION!
Should I seek legal advice?
serving papers
For those of us who've been dumped...
Gotta vent before I lose my mind
I talked to the OW
Need to vent...
won't move out!!!!!
"Journeys"
His opinion..
Bluer than Blue
I DID IT!!
lost a piece of yourself?
Sept 17, 2003
Paul Harvey Writes...
ojar in Nebraska?
Anyone in the NYC area?
OJAR GONE!
Re:The Tragic and Bitter End
Why We Love Kids...
Unable to get past the day
CRAZY COUNSELOR LADY!
Marriage in Heaven...
The Way Life Was
WTF?
Great book for taking personal responsibility
Sonnet by Sarah
True love?
feeling used
MOVED: The Way Life Was
CONFUSION!!!!!!!!!!

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