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Name change as part of divorce Name change as part of divorce.
Filed my complaint/Adultery Question Filed my complaint/Adultery Question.
Expecting a separation agreement any day.. Expecting a separation agreement any day...
Now what do I do? Now what do I do?.
NYS Separation Agreement NYS Separation Agreement.
Adultery and Filing For Divorce Adultery and Filing For Divorce.
What happens in court??? What happens in court???.
Need Help Need Help.
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Spousal Support to Ex-Husband Spousal Support to Ex-Husband.
Separation Separation.
divorced divorced.
SO confused!! SO confused!!.
Condos for sale Condos for sale.
Parental Rights (Children) Parental Rights (Children).
Why does it take so freaking long?? Why does it take so freaking long??.
Summary Dissolution of Marriage Summary Dissolution of Marriage.
how to write a letter to the judge.... how to write a letter to the judge.....
Will I lose the house too?! Will I lose the house too?!.
Non Marrital property Non Marrital property.
Re: lawyers as therapists Re: lawyers as therapists.
Stupid comments Stupid comments.
Need Some Advice Need Some Advice.
Advice to newcomers Advice to newcomers.
How to answer "the question" How to answer "the question".
inlaws inlaws.
Rebound relationships??? Rebound relationships???.
Sex vs. intimacy/love Sex vs. intimacy/love.
dealing w/friend's problems?? dealing w/friend's problems??.
My Mom Is Good... My Mom Is Good....
Friend troubles Friend troubles.
Family not supportive of reconciliation Family not supportive of reconciliation.
Couldn't Take Anymore Couldn't Take Anymore.
So when do they get sick of us? So when do they get sick of us?.
No money anymore-so where are they now? No money anymore-so where are they now?.
Am I suppose to be silent? Am I suppose to be silent?.
Torn between spounse and friends Torn between spounse and friends.
I Feel Like an Outsider I Feel Like an Outsider.
"I Told You So" Hurts Too "I Told You So" Hurts Too.
Moving on.. People and Parents.. Moving on.. People and Parents...
Wary couples Wary couples.
My wife's Mom My wife's Mom.
Sticky Situation?? Sticky Situation??.
advice for the newcomer please advice for the newcomer please.
child emotions after visitation child emotions after visitation.
Lunch with my son Lunch with my son.
Any suggestions? Any suggestions?.
The little ones get hurt too The little ones get hurt too.
scared of his lies scared of his lies.
custody fight custody fight.
lost lost.
Day Care Blues.... Day Care Blues.....
any daddys out there? any daddys out there?.
Little one Little one.
Court Court.
I need advice please!!! I need advice please!!!.
Contacting children Contacting children.
Never let them make you the scapegoat! Never let them make you the scapegoat!.
question question.
daughters mood swings daughters mood swings.
How are Children effected by Homosexual Relationsh How are Children effected by Homosexual Relationsh.
my son and her boyfriend my son and her boyfriend.
Distance and parenting? Distance and parenting?.
Concerned about custody Concerned about custody.
Angry child Angry child.
Children's Rights Children's Rights.
Shared Parenting Shared Parenting.
Blood test Blood test.
Going to drown in debt Going to drown in debt.
READ READ READ-IMPORTANT INFO! READ READ READ-IMPORTANT INFO!.
Scared to live on my own Scared to live on my own.
How bad is it...really? How bad is it...really?.
School Loans School Loans.
any way around debt? any way around debt?.
I want some money I want some money.
Posession Division Posession Division.
For Sale By Owner For Sale By Owner.
She is not helping She is not helping.
spending up big spending up big.
401K liquidation 401K liquidation.
Does anyone have any extra..... Does anyone have any extra......
Car loan in her name Car loan in her name.
Chapter 7 Bankruptcy? Chapter 7 Bankruptcy?.
Bad credit Bad credit.
OJar in Washington OJar in Washington.
Ojar in Indiana Ojar in Indiana.
NEED support in OHIO NEED support in OHIO.
OJar around Washington OJar around Washington.
OJar in NJ, DE or PA? OJar in NJ, DE or PA?.
Calling all L.A.ers... Calling all L.A.ers....
Anyone else in LA? Anyone else in LA?.
Need support in IL Need support in IL.
Ojar around NV, UT, CO Ojar around NV, UT, CO.
OJar in NC? OJar in NC?.
San Francisco or Marin County? San Francisco or Marin County?.
OJar around Texas OJar around Texas.
Is there anyone out there?? Is there anyone out there??.
OJar in Washington, D.C. OJar in Washington, D.C..
Maryland? Maryland?.
Anyone in North Dakota? Anyone in North Dakota?.
Anyone in AZ? Anyone in AZ?.
What about Minnesota? What about Minnesota?.
OJAR in ATL or BAMA? OJAR in ATL or BAMA?.
OJar in Kansas OJar in Kansas.
OJar in Oklahoma OJar in Oklahoma.
Anyone From Ohio Anyone From Ohio.
Is anyone else from Louisiana? Is anyone else from Louisiana?.
OJar around Kentucky OJar around Kentucky.
Ojar in Florida Ojar in Florida.
Ojar in Illinois Ojar in Illinois.
Ojar in New York!?! Ojar in New York!?!.
OJar in Canada OJar in Canada.
Ojar in Michigan Ojar in Michigan.
Ojar in Dominican Republic? Yeah right!!! Ojar in Dominican Republic? Yeah right!!!.
OJar IN CT? OJar IN CT?.
Rhode Island, the Ocean State! Rhode Island, the Ocean State!.
OJar in the United Kingdom OJar in the United Kingdom.
OJar in Germany OJar in Germany.
OJar in Thailand OJar in Thailand.
OJar in Australia and NZ OJar in Australia and NZ.
Complexities of separation at a young(ish) age Complexities of separation at a young(ish) age.
my son's diagnosis my son's diagnosis.
Annulment Annulment.
support place for significant others of divorcees? support place for significant others of divorcees?.
The OJar Gang The OJar Gang.
Wondering if it ever stops???? Wondering if it ever stops????.
Did you know this? Did you know this?.
Aug 7, 2003 Aug 7, 2003.
Aug 4, 2003 Aug 4, 2003.
July 12, 2003 July 12, 2003.
July 10, 2003 July 10, 2003.
Aug 8, 2003 Aug 8, 2003.
Upgraded mesg. board. Upgraded mesg. board..
Re:IS LOVE ENOUGH TO MAKE IT WORK! Re:IS LOVE ENOUGH TO MAKE IT WORK!.
My sob story. Do I deserve something better? My sob story. Do I deserve something better?.
QUESTION? QUESTION?.
leave"ees" dealing with guilt? self-pity? leave"ees" dealing with guilt? self-pity?.
Food discussion Food discussion.
Aug 9, 2003 Aug 9, 2003.
Is that a ring? Is that a ring?.
Aug 10, 2003 Aug 10, 2003.
I think I need to break our contact... I think I need to break our contact....
Should I try to send an E-mail? Should I try to send an E-mail?.
Aug 11, 2003 Aug 11, 2003.
My Immortal My Immortal.
Bring Me To Life Bring Me To Life.
I am going to scream!!!! I am going to scream!!!!.
two good weeks..then crash two good weeks..then crash.
going under going under.
have to meet with stbx have to meet with stbx.
recipe search recipe search.
Time to start planning Ojar gathering #2 Time to start planning Ojar gathering #2.
Aug 12, 2003 Aug 12, 2003.
I just don't understand... I just don't understand... .
Poll for possible locations of Ojar party #2 Poll for possible locations of Ojar party #2.
MOVED: "Secret" Project. MOVED: "Secret" Project..
Confused... Confused....
mediation mediation.
Making light with humor.. Making light with humor...
I just had to tell SOMEBODY!!! I just had to tell SOMEBODY!!!.
right back where i started right back where i started.
hurting here hurting here.
Aug 13, 2003 Aug 13, 2003.
separation ?? separation ??.
Linking Ex-lover Humiliation and Depression Linking Ex-lover Humiliation and Depression.
Fell in a hole.. Fell in a hole...
My favorite Quote My favorite Quote.
Jokes go here. Jokes go here..
daves update/dating daves update/dating.
met with ex last night met with ex last night.
Who moves out ? Who moves out ? .
One more post about the Ojar party One more post about the Ojar party.
To: Old Shoes-re: Las Vegas... To: Old Shoes-re: Las Vegas....
Aug 14, 2003 Aug 14, 2003.
MOVED: Something To Make You Smile MOVED: Something To Make You Smile.
MOVED: A funny quote... MOVED: A funny quote....
Marriage Marriage.
Dear Abby Dear Abby.
Public Restrooms Public Restrooms .
Texas - strange facts Texas - strange facts.
Joke Joke.
Fairytale... not! Fairytale... not!.
WORDS FOR ALL MEN TO LIVE BY....... WORDS FOR ALL MEN TO LIVE BY....... .
Shopping joke Shopping joke.
The Mr. Right Rejection Letter Form The Mr. Right Rejection Letter Form.
Wish it would last.... Wish it would last.....
Lifting my eyes Lifting my eyes.
It hurts, when will i know when to LET GO It hurts, when will i know when to LET GO.
The pain re-surfaces The pain re-surfaces.
A great cook book for guys A great cook book for guys.
Something I thought I'd share with you all. Something I thought I'd share with you all..
Books on learning to live alone Books on learning to live alone.
Let me know what you guys think.... Let me know what you guys think.....
DRIVING ME CRAZY! DRIVING ME CRAZY!.
more hurt more hurt.
Aug 16, 2003 Aug 16, 2003.
The "BIG BLACKOUT" on the East Coast The "BIG BLACKOUT" on the East Coast.
I WONT FORGET I WONT FORGET.
FIVE SECRETS OF A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP FIVE SECRETS OF A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP.
Oldies Oldies.
emotional relapse emotional relapse.
The Dance by Garth Brooks The Dance by Garth Brooks.
How about a funny book? How about a funny book?.
Righteously Righteously.
need advice: route of asking for $ ?? need advice: route of asking for $ ??.
refinance refinance.
My Story Pt 1 My Story Pt 1.
I got my tattoo!!!! I got my tattoo!!!!.
Aug 17, 2003 Aug 17, 2003.
cupid = dumbass cupid = dumbass.
YOUR MOVING WHERE? YOUR MOVING WHERE?.
This week is gonna be tough This week is gonna be tough.
s2bx is coming home from Iraq s2bx is coming home from Iraq.
WHY ME! WHY ME!.
Today was 1st official court date Today was 1st official court date.
Denial.... Denial.....
I want an answer.... I want an answer.....
Speeding dating...AGAIN! Speeding dating...AGAIN!.
Hey... I *am* ALIVE! Hey... I *am* ALIVE!.
VISA Jokes here VISA Jokes here.
Funeral Procession Funeral Procession.
Life goes on.... Life goes on.....
Needs to Vent Needs to Vent.
going to miss the good things going to miss the good things.
Aug 19, 2003 Aug 19, 2003.
last night last night.
coming to Ojar more coming to Ojar more.
Another Blonde Joke Another Blonde Joke.
clean bill of health clean bill of health.
Up/down/up/DOWN Up/down/up/DOWN.
When is the spiritual marriage over? When is the spiritual marriage over?.
Feeling Inadequate Feeling Inadequate.
OUCH! I let him get to me.... OUCH! I let him get to me.....
beef stew beef stew.
Central California here Central California here.
GYM = STRENGTH GYM = STRENGTH.
Confusion or relief? Confusion or relief?.
when to start dating? when to start dating?.
getting over an affair getting over an affair.
Chili Chili.
What confusion...where...hunh? What confusion...where...hunh?.
CoDependency and Respect CoDependency and Respect.
So are you still married? So are you still married?.
for men only... for men only....
got shot down today got shot down today.
Aug 21, 2003 Aug 21, 2003.
Poetry Board Poetry Board.
Aug 22, 2003 Aug 22, 2003.
Poem - my son Poem - my son.
MOVED: Poem Lunch with my son MOVED: Poem Lunch with my son.
Re:Denial....Poem Re:Denial....Poem.
MOVED: Re:Denial....Poem MOVED: Re:Denial....Poem.
"Storms" or "Emotional Storms" "Storms" or "Emotional Storms".
"Confusion" - holding on "Confusion" - holding on.
"The Plan" - our marriage plan "The Plan" - our marriage plan.
"The Emotional Well... ...Reflections of self" "The Emotional Well... ...Reflections of self".
"Cheat" "Cheat".
Your personality? Your ex's? Your personality? Your ex's?.
Very funny website Very funny website.
moving day moving day.
Mustard Anyone? Mustard Anyone?.
the road less travelled the road less travelled.
Thank You Ojar! Thank You Ojar!.
"Birthday" "Birthday".
“Beauty in the day…things shared” “Beauty in the day…things shared”.
TOP FIVE KITCHEN PLAQUE SAYINGS TOP FIVE KITCHEN PLAQUE SAYINGS.
STEPCHILDREN STEPCHILDREN.
Are you kidding me? Worst pick up lines! Are you kidding me? Worst pick up lines!.
Here's one for the men... Here's one for the men....
HOLDING ON FOR THE WRONG REASONS HOLDING ON FOR THE WRONG REASONS.
Feeling sick Feeling sick.
OLDER RELATIVES OLDER RELATIVES.
Lists to Live by Lists to Live by.
I'm now one of many I'm now one of many.
Need some reassurance... Need some reassurance....
my heartbreak my heartbreak.
Aug 24, 2003 Aug 24, 2003.
Pre-fab families Pre-fab families.
Things to look forward to! Things to look forward to!.
Fairytale marriage Fairytale marriage.
Most Embarassing First Date! Most Embarassing First Date!.
Bipolar Disorder Shocking Facts Bipolar Disorder Shocking Facts.
Helping Your Child Through a Divorce - Web Article Helping Your Child Through a Divorce - Web Article.
How do you deal? How do you deal?.
After 8 years...the end After 8 years...the end.
anniversary gifts anniversary gifts .
About to crash About to crash.
coming into the final few weeks before divorce coming into the final few weeks before divorce.
New Apt. New Apt..
How often does your Ex/s2bx.... How often does your Ex/s2bx.....
How easy was your divorce? How easy was your divorce?.
UNEXPLAINED EMOTIONS UNEXPLAINED EMOTIONS.
THAT'S IT, I'VE FINALLY LOST IT!! THAT'S IT, I'VE FINALLY LOST IT!!.
Mothers Mothers.
Steps to Financial Freedom Steps to Financial Freedom.
depressed and heart broken AGAIN! depressed and heart broken AGAIN!.
She finally got it! She finally got it!.
Vacation to Vegas Vacation to Vegas.
She's moving out today! She's moving out today!.
swimmer swimmer.
Aug 27, 2003 Aug 27, 2003.
"delusional Webs" "delusional Webs".
"longing" "longing".
"Emotional Prison" "Emotional Prison".
Lingering sadness.... Lingering sadness.....
The Post Office Bites!!!! The Post Office Bites!!!!.
"Give me the strength" "Give me the strength".
My EX WIFE ,,, LAF My EX WIFE ,,, LAF.
I don't think I'll be having an 'easy' divorce I don't think I'll be having an 'easy' divorce.
So tired So tired.
It Don't Hurt It Don't Hurt.
Hidden Assets Hidden Assets.
for women only for women only.
so he hasn't called..... so he hasn't called......
SALVAGABLE??? SALVAGABLE???.
Song Lyrics--It only Hurts When I Breathe Song Lyrics--It only Hurts When I Breathe.
My update - Ex is back in town with new "Sponsor" My update - Ex is back in town with new "Sponsor".
newbie...how can it go from this to that???? newbie...how can it go from this to that????.
bought a new grill bought a new grill.
Re:Obsession Re:Obsession.
score: Lawyers 99 - Divorcing couple 0 score: Lawyers 99 - Divorcing couple 0.
The superficial "why my bf/gf is better than my ex" thread The superficial "why my bf/gf is better than my ex" thread.
New here....just looking for support (long) New here....just looking for support (long).
Set back Set back.
Make him pay or let him go? Make him pay or let him go?.
I'm such a guy I'm such a guy.
Re:Who are you? Re:Who are you?.
Aug 28, 2003 Aug 28, 2003.
Can he begin to forgive once it's final?? Can he begin to forgive once it's final??.
It Only Hurts When I'm Breathing It Only Hurts When I'm Breathing.
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!.
"The New Path" "The New Path".
Confused and Stressed Confused and Stressed.
filing? filing?.
Divorce Final Today Divorce Final Today.
Still so angry after six months... Still so angry after six months....
Re:Misc Rambiling and venting Re:Misc Rambiling and venting.
I had no idea! I had no idea!.
meeting with ?? meeting with ??.
Stop the world, I want to get off. Stop the world, I want to get off..
New here New here.
True or false: We part as friends/live together True or false: We part as friends/live together.
I'm being stomped on! I'm being stomped on!.
Emtions ! Emtions !.
Separated and brokenhearted. What do I do now? Separated and brokenhearted. What do I do now?.
Thanks Thanks.
Anxiety Attacks Anxiety Attacks.
"Wasted time" by the Eagles "Wasted time" by the Eagles.
Re:Anniversary Day Re:Anniversary Day.
Venezuela? Ha ha Venezuela? Ha ha.
Back to that internet dating thing... Back to that internet dating thing....
spinning my wheels spinning my wheels.
Baked Chicken Baked Chicken.
THE END! THE END!.
calling all ex's calling all ex's.
New Place New Place.
“Emotional Burnout” “Emotional Burnout”.
Need Advice... Need Advice....
"Insecurity" "Insecurity".
How could this happen?!?!?! How could this happen?!?!?!.
What Might Have Been.. What Might Have Been...
Re:No More Lurking Re:No More Lurking.
Blaming myself Blaming myself.
Deafening Silence---Is this the end, my friend? Deafening Silence---Is this the end, my friend?.
Saying goodbye to S2BX - any advice? Saying goodbye to S2BX - any advice?.
Pain of the ex meeting someone Pain of the ex meeting someone.
Landmines Landmines.
"New Beginning" "New Beginning".
"Sinking Ship" "Sinking Ship".
My Story Part 1 My Story Part 1.
Sept 3, 2003 Sept 3, 2003.
Regret and lack of regret... Regret and lack of regret....
gossip gossip.
some conundrums and questions some conundrums and questions.
first time here first time here.
Anyone in Northern Wisconsin??? Anyone in Northern Wisconsin???.
Anyone feel this way? Anyone feel this way?.
question about the new design question about the new design.
tires...isnt that ridiculous?!?!? tires...isnt that ridiculous?!?!?.
Mediation Mediation.
divorce process divorce process.
In hindsight..would you do it over again? In hindsight..would you do it over again?.
REALITY CHECK! REALITY CHECK!.
Positive Steps... Positive Steps....
Sure could use some help! Sure could use some help!.
limboland v. divorce limboland v. divorce.
staying busy staying busy.
Ok to leave because one is Miserable? Ok to leave because one is Miserable?.
reading this board reminds me... reading this board reminds me....
may i take a minute may i take a minute.
chat room chat room.
Doing the right thing? Doing the right thing?.
QUALIFIED SPOUSES! QUALIFIED SPOUSES!.
Don't look for this Don't look for this.
Minimum Marriage Age Minimum Marriage Age.
All done All done.
He called me Her He called me Her.
Winter's Door Winter's Door.
Love is Unkind Love is Unkind.
"Tides" "Tides".
This Book Looks Pretty Good This Book Looks Pretty Good.
Cold Cold.
Back from Vegas!! Back from Vegas!!.
Length of Marriage Length of Marriage.
When do the feelings stop. When do the feelings stop..
Re:Anyone in Missouri? Re:Anyone in Missouri?.
Full survey of marriage length Full survey of marriage length.
Movie quotes Movie quotes.
First date First date.
Had a great weekend !! Had a great weekend !!.
Footloose and Fancy-free Footloose and Fancy-free.
Missing my H Missing my H.
sex for revenge sex for revenge.
Do I wait? Do I wait?.
The Rising The Rising.
for those still going through the legal formality for those still going through the legal formality.
the bible the bible.
"always stay logged in" "always stay logged in".
hmm... hmm....
Feeling Crowded Feeling Crowded.
a quote from khalil gibran a quote from khalil gibran.
Re:Why do we want the ones we cant have??? Re:Why do we want the ones we cant have???.
Aren't we supposed to hate them? Aren't we supposed to hate them?.
my husband left me my husband left me.
Re:any of you men left your wife? Re:any of you men left your wife?.
I just got a call from her..... I just got a call from her......
Shaking, Hurt, and needing to Vent Shaking, Hurt, and needing to Vent.
Re:Question for mothers of boys Re:Question for mothers of boys.
Re:Loneliness Re:Loneliness.
Losing my mind? Losing my mind?.
Anyone in GA (specifically ATL) Anyone in GA (specifically ATL).
Slander? Slander?.
Is there any hope here? Is there any hope here?.
Goodbye to Romance - Ozzy Osbourne Goodbye to Romance - Ozzy Osbourne.
still married and dating? still married and dating?.
COUNSELING DOES IT WORK? COUNSELING DOES IT WORK?.
Massachusetts? Boston area? Massachusetts? Boston area?.
What is going on here???? What is going on here????.
Why Do I Let Him Why Do I Let Him.
On my birthday? No, he wouldn't! On my birthday? No, he wouldn't!.
uncomfortable shoes uncomfortable shoes.
Take a minute to remember Take a minute to remember.
being alone......sucess story being alone......sucess story.
Need advice about this please Need advice about this please.
Re:Dealing with the others anger/depression Re:Dealing with the others anger/depression.
Need some good advice Need some good advice.
Sept 11, 2003 Sept 11, 2003.
parallel emotions parallel emotions.
Cheating... Cheating....
Kids & Extra Curricular Activities Kids & Extra Curricular Activities.
the kids--I feel like I'm being shredded the kids--I feel like I'm being shredded.
"Circles" "Circles".
Sept 13, 2003 Sept 13, 2003.
Why? Why?.
"OJARGATE" -- Michael's thoughts. "OJARGATE" -- Michael's thoughts..
Sept 14, 2003 Sept 14, 2003.
control and marriage control and marriage.
Whether or NOT to take medication Whether or NOT to take medication.
Sept 15, 2003 Sept 15, 2003.
Being Single Being Single.
Comfort Food Comfort Food.
QUESTION! QUESTION!.
Should I seek legal advice? Should I seek legal advice?.
serving papers serving papers.
For those of us who've been dumped... For those of us who've been dumped....
Gotta vent before I lose my mind Gotta vent before I lose my mind.
I talked to the OW I talked to the OW.
Need to vent... Need to vent....
won't move out!!!!! won't move out!!!!!.
"Journeys" "Journeys".
His opinion.. His opinion...
Bluer than Blue Bluer than Blue.
I DID IT!! I DID IT!!.
lost a piece of yourself? lost a piece of yourself?.
Sept 17, 2003 Sept 17, 2003.
Paul Harvey Writes... Paul Harvey Writes....
ojar in Nebraska? ojar in Nebraska?.
Anyone in the NYC area? Anyone in the NYC area?.
OJAR GONE! OJAR GONE!.
Re:The Tragic and Bitter End Re:The Tragic and Bitter End.
Why We Love Kids... Why We Love Kids....
Unable to get past the day Unable to get past the day.
CRAZY COUNSELOR LADY! CRAZY COUNSELOR LADY!.
Marriage in Heaven... Marriage in Heaven....
The Way Life Was The Way Life Was.
WTF? WTF?.
Great book for taking personal responsibility Great book for taking personal responsibility.
Sonnet by Sarah Sonnet by Sarah .
True love? True love?.
feeling used feeling used.
MOVED: The Way Life Was MOVED: The Way Life Was.
CONFUSION!!!!!!!!!! CONFUSION!!!!!!!!!!.

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