The grieving cycle and why dealing with divorce hurts so much?

To understand why the grieving cycle and dealing with divorce hurts so much its important to consider how you arrived at your current situation. I don’t mean by that the fights that ultimately forced you or your partner to make the decision that continuing was too hard. Rather I mean consider the thoughts that went…

What is OJar?

If you are going through divorce, breakup or relationship difficulty “You are not alone”. When I divorced at a young age, I thought I was unusual. This year in the USA, 4 million people will go through a relationship transition. It is a community site which features Essays, Statistics, a newsletter and useful links. The…

Young couple divorce, feeling alone and why was this web site originally created.

You see, when a young couple divorces they often wonder, how could this have happened to “them (me)”? They feel isolated. If you have already gone through a divorce then you can help. What you know WILL and CAN help others. 1) The easiest way to help is to share what you know on the…